Praise. Praise for How We Love “How We Love has the capacity to change not only your marriage but every relationship that’s important in your life.”. How We Love has ratings and 99 reviews. In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory. How We Love. Milan and Kay Yerkovich explain why the ways you and your spouse relate to each other go back to before you even met. Drawing on the.

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And because it addresses family of origin love styles, it is helpful for growing in those relationships, too.

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Unnecessary additions of christian theology. Crying kids really annoy me; if they were my kid, it would stop. Apr 27, Trish rated it yerkovcih was amazing Shelves: I am thrilled that more couples will learn how to strengthen their relationships through the tools described in this book. I think people having troubles in their marriage will appreciate this read, but for me, it just didn’t work.

Open Preview See a Problem? That kind of knowing ourselves requires contemplation and reflection. Jun 18, Brittney rated it it was amazing Shelves: The basic premise is this.

The book always went to childhood for why someone acted the way they did, and childhood does greatly affect a person, but there are many things that can effect a person.

Growing up, my home lovf very difficult, but I found I could escape into my head and go away.

The Victim Styles 4 and 5 often go together, originating from a chaotic upbringing. They unpack four main love styles that couples tend to fall into, all based on answering the question “How were you comforted as a llove

Jan 30, Holly rated it really liked it. The result of all these experiences are actually very predictable because people tend to fall into one of five special categories: I went into this one thinking I’d find insight on how to strengthen an already strong marriage. My dating relationships can be passionate and exciting, but I feel betrayed and duped when that spark is gone. Here is how they define Attachment Theory. The emphasis of the examples are romantic examples but the core information being presented by the book can be applicable to other relationships too.


This book is a must read for anyone desiring a better, healthier, more God-honoring relationship with their significant other! But the part I read was revealing.

There are numerous places in both the book and the workbook where the authors list characteristics of each attachment style or even statements that a person with that style would be likely to make. It really got in the way of the olve to be conveyed. Which version of se quiz would you like?

Jan 15, Kimberly rated it it was amazing. When looking for a marriage partner, they feel something missing with someone who does not have soul words to express the many emotions and thoughts inside.

Milan is a pastoral counselor and co-host of the radio… More about Kay Yerkovich. It will only take olve couple minutes.

My childhood was so unsafe I remember hiding to protect myself. Inspired by Your Browsing History. Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read.

I am dishonest at times to avoid conflict. The five styles are: I only read so far as it applied to the single.

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My significant other says mean things to me and makes me feel small and helpless. There are times where the author’s voice switches back and forth between Kay and Milan and it can be a bit of A very insightful and helpful read. We both highly encourage anyone who has been married longer than a few years to pick this one up.

I wanted tips on what works, what doesn’t and also tips on how we can I went into this one thinking I’d find insight on how to strengthen an already strong marriage. Milan Yerkovich is a weekly talk show host on the New Life Live! The initial parts of the book provide good insight on your love style and the way the love styles interact but the latter half of the book was bogged down with details on how to use the “comfort circle” to grow closer as a couple.


How We Love, Expanded Edition

Jul 08, Jake Engelke rated it liked it. If you want to strengthen and enrich your marriage, as well as grow personally, I strongly encourage you to read and digest this material. But I have decided upon finishing the book that this reading of it was cursory at best and I ordered it, with the workbook included, through Amazon and will be going back through it giving it the time it deserves so I can learn.

As a result, it does not occur to them to include others in the decision-making process. See all books by Milan YerkovichKay Yerkovich.

I M now enjoying a much better relationship yerkoviich my family because of the insights contained on these pages. If I think someone is mad at me, I would rather do something nice for them than confront them directly. Nov 25, Brandon H. Changed in a Flash. This was a fascinating book. Living with the Gods. Holy Sexuality and the Gospel. The book How We Love leads the reader through a few basic questions and then some basic, sub-questions and the answers to those questions tells so much!

Seriously, this book can change and improve a marriage, or even just, your other relationships.